Fearful, not naughty: Understanding your pet’s behaviour at the vet

Growling, freezing or hiding at the vet isn’t bad behaviour. It’s communication.

Think about what a visit to us can feel like for a pet.

Their person might be tense.
The floor slippery.
Strangers are touching them.
Nothing smells like home.

For many pets, a visit to the vet isn’t neutral — it’s unfamiliar, confusing and sometimes genuinely frightening.

So when a dog growls, freezes, hides, snaps, refuses treats or trembles, it isn’t attitude or stubbornness. It’s fear.

Cats, in particular, are very good at hiding how stressed they feel. A cat that looks “well behaved” is often actually shut down:

  • Very still
  • Crouched
  • Wide-eyed
  • Silent

That isn’t a relaxed cat — it’s a cat doing its best to cope.

What do we do for fearful pets at PetMed Vets?

We don’t see fearful pets as difficult pets.
We see them as animals telling us something important.

Rather than expecting pets to push through an environment that feels scary, we adapt our approach to suit them. That might mean:

  • Slowing things down
  • Using completely separate cat and dog spaces
  • Examining pets where they feel safest
  • Using towels, treats, pheromones and warm mats
  • Breaking visits into smaller, more manageable steps
  • Changing the plan if a pet is becoming overwhelmed
  • Recommending pre-visit calming support when helpful

We will always prioritise a pet’s emotional wellbeing over forcing everything into a single appointment.

Can fearful pets learn to feel more comfortable at the vet?

Yes absolutely!

With gentle handling, a calm environment and the right pace, even very worried pets can learn that the vet clinic is a place where:

  • People move gently
  • Voices stay calm
  • Fear is taken seriously and they aren’t pushed beyond what they can cope with

What can I do if my pet is scared of the vet?

There are lots of small things that can make a real difference:

  • Leave carriers out at home with familiar bedding and the occasional treat so they become safe, cosy spaces.
  • Take short, positive car trips that don’t always end at the vet.
  • Spray carriers, bedding or car seats with calming pheromones about 30 minutes before travel.
  • Remember that pets are very sensitive to how we’re feeling — speaking softly and staying relaxed can help them cope.
  • If the waiting room feels busy, you’re welcome to wait in your car or a quiet area. Just let our team know when you arrive and we’ll call you straight in when we’re ready.
  • Let us know ahead of time if your pet is nervous.
  • Bring favourite, high-value treats.
  • Keep cats covered in their carrier with a towel and place them on the bench in our cat waiting area.
  • Drop in for “happy visits” where your dog just comes in for treats, pats, a sniff around, or a quick step on the scales.
  • Ask us about ways to make visits easier if they’re consistently hard.

Fearful pets can learn to feel safer, but only when they’re listened to.

Every visit teaches your pet what “the vet” means.
And we want that lesson to be simple:

This place is safe.

 

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If your pet feels anxious or unsettled at the vet, get in touch with our team to learn how we adapt our approach to support their behaviour and wellbeing.

 

Why It Matters That PedMed Is Independently Owned

What does it mean that PedMed Veterinary Clinic is independently owned?

When you visit PedMed Veterinary Clinic, you are visiting a local, independently owned practice that genuinely cares about your pets and our community. We are not part of a large corporate chain or franchise. Our clinic is owned and operated by our veterinarian, Jenny, who works right here in the clinic every day.

This independence allows us to make decisions that truly put pets and people first. It means we are free to create our own approach to care, our own team culture, and our own way of supporting clients. Every choice we make reflects what matters most to us: your pets’ wellbeing and the trust you place in us.

Because we’re independent, we can:

  • Make our own clinical decisions. Every treatment and recommendation is made by our vets based on what’s best for each individual pet — not on corporate policies, product quotas, or external targets.
  • Take the time to build relationships. You’ll see familiar faces and a team that genuinely knows you and your pets. We aim for continuity of care, not a revolving door of staff.
  • Support our local community. We choose to work with nearby suppliers, sponsor locally and keep our business dollars within the area.
  • Stay flexible. We can adapt quickly — whether that means offering a new service, adjusting our opening hours, or tailoring a treatment plan to fit your pet’s needs and your budget.
  • Maintain a positive workplace culture. Our team has a say in how the clinic runs. That autonomy helps us attract and keep great staff who truly enjoy their work.

Being independent also means we can focus on what really matters: relationships. Our clients know they can reach out to a familiar team who remembers their pets and their history. We value consistency because it helps us deliver the highest level of care and makes visits more comfortable for both you and your pet.

We also take pride in supporting other local businesses and suppliers. By keeping our services community-focused, we contribute directly to the local economy and help strengthen the network of small, trusted providers that make our area special.

Independence for us is not about standing apart, but about standing for something. It means we are accountable directly to our clients, our patients, and our community. It allows us to combine the warmth and personal touch of a local clinic with the advanced equipment, experience, and standards you would expect from a modern veterinary hospital.

When you choose PedMed, you are choosing care that is personal, genuine, and locally driven. You are supporting a clinic that values integrity, compassion, and connection above all else.

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If you’d like to learn more about our independently owned vet practice, get in touch with the our team today!

Silver Cat Friendly Clinic – What It Means for You and Your Cat

What does it mean that PedMed Veterinary Clinic Kohimarama is a Silver Cat Friendly Clinic?

Being an ISFM Silver Cat Friendly Clinic means we meet strict international standards set by the International Society of Feline Medicine (ISFM) to make veterinary visits less stressful for cats.

Our team is trained to understand feline behaviour, reduce anxiety, and handle cats gently and respectfully. Every part of our clinic—our layout, our approach, and our care—is designed with cats’ comfort and wellbeing in mind.

Why do cats find vet visits stressful?

Cats are territorial and prefer familiar surroundings, so leaving home can be stressful. New sights, smells, and sounds—especially dogs—can make them anxious. That’s why the Cat Friendly Clinic programme was created: to make veterinary visits calmer and more positive for cats and their caregivers

How is a Cat Friendly Clinic different from a regular vet clinic?

At a Cat Friendly Clinic, the environment and handling methods are tailoured specifically for cats.
We offer:

  • A separate cat waiting area away from dogs.
  • A cat only consultation room with dimmable lighting.
  • A cat-only hospital and recovery area that’s calm and comfortable.
  • Fear Free and ISFM-trained staff who understand feline body language and use gentle, low-stress restraint techniques, and no scruffing, to keep cats safe while ensuring they feel calm and secure.

What does the ‘Silver’ level mean?

ISFM awards clinics Bronze, Silver, or Gold status based on their facilities and cat care standards.
Our Silver Cat Friendly status means we meet almost all the highest-level criteria. The only difference from Gold is that we do not have overnight staff on-site, so we don’t hospitalise sick cats overnight.

Why should I choose a Cat Friendly Clinic for my cat?

Cats are sensitive creatures who thrive in calm, predictable environments. Choosing a Cat Friendly Clinic means:

  • Less fear and stress for your cat.
  • Gentler, safer handling and examination.
  • Staff who truly understand cat behaviour.
  • A more relaxed experience for both you and your cat, making visits smoother and health checks easier.

How do you make cats feel safe during their visit?

We use quiet voices, soft towels, and pheromone diffusers to create a calm environment. Cats are given time to explore and settle before being examined. If needed, we perform exams while your cat stays in the bottom half of their carrier to help them feel secure—just as recommended by ISFM guidelines.

Do you have separate areas for dogs and cats?

Yes. Our clinic is divided into cat-only and dog-only zones. The dog area is soundproofed, and cats are never housed near dogs. This helps keep the feline area peaceful, quiet, and stress-free.

Where can I learn more about Cat Friendly Clinics?

You can learn more about the ISFM Cat Friendly Clinic programme and find resources for cat caregivers at catfriendlyclinic.org

 

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If you’d like to learn more about our Cat Friendly approach or book a visit for your feline friend, get in touch with the our team today!